Monthly Archives: April 2017

Raising a Toast to the bravehearts -Bunker, Gurgaon

Goosebumps!! I feel it  every time I hear Jana Gana Mana playing around me.

Blood Rush!!! I feel it every time I am at the stadium watching an Indian Pakistan Match and the crowd chants out loud “Bhaarat Mata kiiii…..Jai!!!!”

Patriotism, nationalism and love for the nation are common on these occassions. The above feelings are just so natural in the above mentioned situations.

The last weekend was something new for me. The same feeling while sitting for dinner. For the first time I was visiting a place that pays homage to the brave and selfless soldiers of the Indian Armed Forces. Bunker, which is owned by a former Army official, is the place where you feel hungry and patriotic at the same time. The cafe is completely dedicated to the Indian Army.


That’s how they serve French Fries 😉

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The Bar



The food and drinks are named on all things “Army” and the decor will make you feel as if you are no longer in the Millennium City. You enter a different world here when you see trivia about the forces, their weaponry, the order of precedence in all the forces and even uniform blazers hanging in the cafe.  The first signs are visible as soon as you look at the door which has a gun shaped metal handle. Enter and you have multiple TV screens sharing facts about the defense forces and showing clippings from the war zone.


Pistol and Soldier Salute

As we started with our dinner, the most confusing part of a dinner turned into the most entertaining part for my partner and me. Yes, I am talking about the time when we were handed the menu cards. Everything is so uniquely named. Very innovative and entertaining for me.

To start with, we ordered drinks named Pistol and Soldier Salute. Both the drinks were innovative with different alcohols and flavors. Pistol was more strong while Soldier Salute slightly more refined as it had wine in it. We loved the quantity of the drinks. They were ‘Fully Loaded’ 🙂



Chicken Strips


Cheese Torpedo

Next came good old French Fries which were tasty and crisp served with a red plastic gun (don’t get scared) that had the ketchup inside. Again, Quite innovative! For a moment it brought out the kid in me. I immediately wanted to pull the trigger and run around mimicking the rattling sound of a gun. Those were the days 🙂

We were ready to eat more so we ordered Cheese Torpedo, slightly spicy for us. Our favorite were the Chicken Strips because of the delicious accompaniment of the pepper sauce. It was cooked to perfection!


Bunker Special Pasta

Our snacks were delicious but we were not yet “Fully Loaded” and wanted something more. Next came the Bunker Special Pasta which was spaghetti in meatballs. Tasty pasta and definitely not overcooked which usually happens when you eat outside.

If guns fascinated me as a kid, my present day fascination lies in drones. How could I miss laying hands on one at Bunker. We ordered Bunker’s signature dish which was the Drone Pizza- an octagonal shaped  pizza filled with juicy vegetables and served with a mint sauce. The pizza was so different (Take a look) and delicious (Take a bite) that the pasta felt left out for a change.This should be tried for sure!


Drone Pizza


Signature of Bunker

We ended our evening with a delicious dessert filled with three different flavors of ice cream and gems and jellies. The creativity in the names was on point. This was named ‘The Battle Tank’ and this one surely came towards us ‘All Guns Blazing’. Phew!!! Was I stuffed or what. Still tempted to hog, hog and hog more.



Overall, we loved the place and would definitely go back. It is a welcome change from the cafes and joints of Cyber Hub and Sector 29. The service is exceptional and the manager here is very welcoming and polite as is the rest of the staff. Music was on point… especially after 830!

Jai Hind!!!


Turning 30 in the land of the namesake

When you find your calling….

It redefines you. It redefines your purpose, your attitude, your perception. Exactly what I experienced last winter.

When you find your calling??

It took me four years to arrive at this one destination. I do not regret that it did not happen four years ago for me. I believe I was not wiser than today to make the most of it. And surely one is expected to be more wise at 30.

December 2016 I finally took the plunge. I am usually not very upbeat about birthdays and even if it is the 30th. However, everyone around me was quite excited about my 30th. I decided to do it my way. I booked myself for Vipassana at Bodhgaya in the same week in which I turned 30.

‘Be Careful What you Wish For’

New Delhi to Bodhgaya are connected by railways as well as airways. You can take a train to Gaya which takes approximately 15  hours. I have always loved train journeys and have always wanted for more of them. My excitement of going for Vipassana almost went a notch higher when I realised that I was getting ready for another train journey. The journey that was supposed to end in 15 hours lasted for 29 hours.  Someone has righlty said ‘Be Careful What you Wish For’. I spent some time clicking a few pictures around the station and how could I have not tried a few eateries around the train station.


Vipassana at Bodhgaya

Vipassana is a Buddhist form of meditation which has its roots in Myanmar (erstwhile Burma). It was revived in India by S.N. Goenka who is fondly referred to as ‘Goenka Ji’. This technique was practised by Gautama Buddha about 2500 years ago.

It is ten day meditation course wherein the participants are required to practise complete silence and refrain from any activities such as reading, listening to music, consuming intoxicants etc. The millennials need to take note that mobile phones are not allowed during the ten days.

The campus in Bodhgaya is located at a 45 minutes drive from the railway station and is very near to the Magadha University. Going from Delhi it was a transition from an urban concrete jungle to an ocean of greenery. I was able to spot butterflies and that too in different colours throughout my stay at the campus. Break during the lunch were spent strolling amongst the woods like I have done never before. Breakfast time was one of the most serene and beautiful morning times I have seen in a long time. Foggy, moist mornings with Goenka Ji’s recitals echoing all around the campus were pure bliss.


A day at the Centre

Our day used to start at 4:30am. We were woken up using the prayer bells. Breakfast was served at 6:30am after the first session of early morning meditation. The second session led us to lunch which was served at 11:30am. The last meal of the day which somehow turned out to be my favourite was served at 5:30pm. This was one level of discipline I have never observed in my life. The day had 12 hours of meditation which ended with a televised discourse by Goenka Ji.

I am sure if this routine is incorporated as a part of our daily lives, it would transform us in ways more than one.

My Learnings

The centre at Bodhgaya is within touching distance of the Bodhi Tree where Gautama Buddha attained enlightenment.  There was some energy at the centre that made me feel that I was so close to the iconic location which has no parallel in this world. Fellow participants who had attended the course at different locations earlier agreed to my observation .

The course had 100 participants from all over the globe. I mean it when I say that. Africa was the only continent which was missing. Would have loved to have had a complete grid though. It was such a privilege for me to have participants who had done the course at various locations almost a dozen number of times but were back again. Such is the power. Their belief and faith was not only extremely positive but also very re-assuring.

We did not speak a word to each other but it was the faith that was the common thread. It helped us strike friendships and connect with people after the course ended. I am lucky to have met wonderful and inspiring people with so much to learn from.


Jim, Petr, Azar and Me

I will not be able to do justice to the course by trying to write what I learnt and gained from it. Firstly, it is just not possible to explain the feeling and I also believe that every person would gain differently from the other one. Everyone has to have his own judgement independent of any perceptions.

However, there are two things which I would love to conclude with and highlight from my experience. While I was preparing to leave from Delhi, I felt it would be a kind of retreat from the world and its worldly concerns. No doubt that was true but this was the closest I could have come to myself and understanding myself.

Last and most important, one thing that Goenka Ji always reminds us and which has been eternally etched in my mind is ‘Annica’. This is one word to describe how I have started living my life – everything is temporary and it shall pass.